Why are people Depressed?
If I asked that at a conference full of, anyone really, I'd get a mixed response
- People have problems
- They have a hard life
- ETC ETC
What it really amounts to, the answer that is, is people saying again and again "PROBLEMS"
DEPRESSED PEOPLE = Sick of problems,
GIVING INIt's hard for me to say it, but thats what it amounts to. The Weak will, or the Broken will of people, giving into their problems. We all have problems, we all have different ways of dealing with it. All our problems are different, different sizes, different SOLUTIONS
Thats a golden word, SOLUTIONS. All problems have a solution. It may not be pretty. It may not be fun, but there is a solution. What people who suffer from depression can't handle is the solution .They rather bare the problem and bare for such along time it worsens. They think the solution so unobtainable. When that is far from the truth. Nothing in this life is unobtainable with the right attitude and will power.
People who give in. They are going for the easier (or sometimes harder) way out of things. They give up. Its the truth. They have problems, rather than get through them, show percervierence to a level where they can deal with their problems, the throw in the towel.
Obstacles in life (Problems) are needed for our survival. Problems are what make us, US. Without them, we don't learn and we would not grow. People may sneer and say that their problems are grand and larger than anyone elses. BUT THEY STILL HAVE AN ANSWER. If you dont' throw that towel in, start "Hating" everything in your life, then you can fix it.
LOVE = Common problem amongst nearly every human being on this planet. Wether it be Parent love, Friend love or Love for another human being, for their attention and compassion and to be with them (get into that another time). LOVE is the cause of (when you boil down the problem) a large percent of the "depressional" problems we face today. But there is an answer to everything. You just need to find it/obtain it. Once you do, you realize how stupid it was to waste such time in your life being miserable about something.
Suicide isn't the answer. In fact, your not just throwing the towel in, your cutting it up and burning it. It's also the most selfish thing you can do. You think your alone and you end your life. What about everybody else? Family and Friends, as much as you think that they are against you, they will miss you and want you back. If you are depressed, you do need to talk to someone. Because they help. Fuck the mentality of "Oh I'm not going to see a "shrink" becuase they dont' do anything" Talk to the Psychiatrist, talk to your friends, talk to your parents.
Its no good sinking down on something "bad", a big problems of yours and not telling anyone. Are you seeking that much attention that you let it brewd over time for someone to ask you? Or are you doing everyone a "service" by not involving them? Your friends and family want to be involved. They want to help. Because everything has a solution. A helping hand is always comforting.
Life isn't meant to be easy. If it was, we'd wake up every morning and be catered to or presented the day in the way that we choose and then carry out all the activities we want to. But that isn't life. Life is a gruelling experience, filled with sadness, anger, sorrow. It is also filled with reward, satisfaction and LOVE (there goes that L word again). All of which are obtained at the end of facing and getting past your problems. The road isn't easy, the road is tough. But without these experiences, you are nothing. The bad and hard experiences makes us as a human being.
So remember that as you walk down the street. Smile at everyone you see. Be happy that you are alive, that you can feel ALL the feelings that you can, that no matter what goes wrong you have family and friends (as large or as small as that group may be). That people will listen. That EVERY problem has an answer. That EVERYONE has problems
AND
even though that bird just shat on your shoulder, you don't care
Because life is worth living and at the end of the day - Debt collectors, workers, employees, friends, OBSTACLES
THEY dont' get the satisfaction of taking your free will
your persistance
your smile
they don't get that satisfaction

PS. This is considering those things in the above list are sadistacl people hell bent on taking your pride and freedom